Sam 1895 - an hour I'll never get back

[Rogie1]

http://guelph.backpage.com/FemaleEsc...day-25/8192360

I've been wanting to see Sam for a while & had seen what I recalled as mostly good reviews of her here. After a golf day I thought the stars had aligned & I'd get my wish. A little bit of text back & forth & we make plans for an agreed upon time. I make it clear that I'm coming in from out of town but am on my way.

I arrive at the hotel about 5 to 10 minutes early & as I'm pulling into the parking lot I get a message from Sam telling me she's cancelling & going home. I'm thinking you've got to be fucking kidding me so I text her back letting her know I'm already in the parking lot & that I drove a half hour out of my way to see her. Sorry I'm gone. I'm seriously pissed off at this point so ask her how she feels when a guy pulls a no show. I hope you have a good nite anyway.

I wish there was a happy ending to the story but I guess it's just another example of the shitty customer service & piss poor client skills some of these girls. Not how I pictured getting Sam off my TDL but it is what it is.

PS - before the white knights come stampeding to the rescue - I was not rude or disrespectful in any way, even after she wasted an hour of my time & gas money. But I also think it's the right thing to do & let other members know when a girl is unreliable like this.

[ttomahawkk]

well it didn't set you back for the hh or hour.
then yu would have really had a reason to whine.

maybe she just didn't feel like it .
her choice for whatever reason.
not a big deal.
at least she informred you that she had cancelled

[Ninja.Turtle]

If she wants to be treated like a professional she should act like one

[Superdave19]

Shit happens…I say give the girl a break. She could have given you a lame excuse but didn't. Blue balls can make any guy pissed. I would have gone for massage and tried her another day.

[Ninja.Turtle]

For some of us we have a limited amount of time and by doing that she took an hours pay out of another girls pocket who would have stood by her booking. The girl I saw yesterday was not feeling the best but still showed up and pushed through it. I offered numerous times to let her rebook but she insisted.

[honeycrisp2]

Look, I'm glad it worked out for you but encouraging us to push through when we aren't feeling it is a pretty dangerous attitude. If we are going to work when we aren't feeling it that's our prerogative and you shouldn't be creating a standard based on what one girl did for you because its us that knows best whether to cancel or push through. I am not making excuses for bad service or being unreliable o am just trying to be realistic because sometimes it does happen. As in this case with Sam. Firstly Sam is my friend so I won't pretend to be unbiased, but Rogie, I am going to agree with some of the other commenters here and say that I think you are coming off overly volatile and critical. We all have moments when we aren't feeling it anymore and it benefits EVERYONE, escorts and clients alike, when we can cancel if we really need to. Sam has a good rep and no history of doing this, so give her a break. It's better she cancelled than wasted not only your time but your money as well. You got the shitty end of the stick obviously, and I can completely understand being frustrated and disappointed to be on the receiving end of a cancellation. Just remember guys your right to get what you want isn't more important than our right to take care of ourselves and do what we need to do. I say let it go, drop the angry accusations and post your experience without being so inflammatory.

For some of us we have a limited amount of time and by doing that she took an hours pay out of another girls pocket who would have stood by her booking. The girl I saw yesterday was not feeling the best but still showed up and pushed through it. I offered numerous times to let her rebook but she insisted.

[cutterbuck]

I wish there was a happy ending to the story but I guess it's just another example of the shitty customer service & piss poor client skills some of these girls. Not how I pictured getting Sam off my TDL but it is what it is.

Sam would appear to have a solid reputation, I would imagine she had a legitimate reason for cancelling your appointment.

The girl I saw yesterday was not feeling the best but still showed up and pushed through it. I offered numerous times to let her rebook but she insisted.

That’s a noble gesture on the part of the SP, however from my point of view I would have cancelled or rebooked. I’d prefer not go ahead with an appointment if the lady wasn’t feeling up to par.

[Rogie1]

Look, I'm glad it worked out for you but encouraging us to push through when we aren't feeling it is a pretty dangerous attitude. If we are going to work when we aren't feeling it that's our prerogative and you shouldn't be creating a standard based on what one girl did for you because its us that knows best whether to cancel or push through. I am not making excuses for bad service or being unreliable o am just trying to be realistic because sometimes it does happen. As in this case with Sam. Firstly Sam is my friend so I won't pretend to be unbiased, but Rogie, I am going to agree with some of the other commenters here and say that I think you are coming off overly volatile and critical. We all have moments when we aren't feeling it anymore and it benefits EVERYONE, escorts and clients alike, when we can cancel if we really need to. Sam has a good rep and no history of doing this, so give her a break. It's better she cancelled than wasted not only your time but your money as well. You got the shitty end of the stick obviously, and I can completely understand being frustrated and disappointed to be on the receiving end of a cancellation. Just remember guys your right to get what you want isn't more important than our right to take care of ourselves and do what we need to do. I say let it go, drop the angry accusations and post your experience without being so inflammatory.

Wow, it's interesting to watch this spin as people weigh in from all sides. My intent was & still is to share the facts.

Noelle, thanks for being honest & up front about your bias. And you ARE making excuses for bad service & being unreliable.

I'm not seeing where I was either angry or accusatory. I stated the facts - & to me it's poor customer service to take a booking at 10:45 & bail at 11:10. It is possible that her health suddenly declined or an emergency happened - I get that. If she just wasn't feeling like seeing clients she should have simply said so earlier on & not taken the booking, save me the drive & given some other lady the opportunity to make the money.

Let me ask you the same & only question I sent back to Sam when she cancelled & drove right by me in the parking lot - how do you feel when a customer pulls a no show on you? I treat people with the respect & professionalism I expect them to treat me with.

[honeycrisp2]

Rogie, I'm not making excuses. I'm saying that you accusing her of having piss poor customer service is rude and an over-reaction. Your comparison is bogus, too. She didn't pull a no-show, she cancelled. How do you know maybe she just finished seeing a client who made her feel icky. I've had clients cancel on me at the last minute and I definitely don't react like this. Maybe if she had a history of doing this I could see where you were coming from but she doesn't.

Wow, it's interesting to watch this spin as people weigh in from all sides. My intent was & still is to share the facts.

Noelle, thanks for being honest & up front about your bias. And you ARE making excuses for bad service & being unreliable.

I'm not seeing where I was either angry or accusatory. I stated the facts - & to me it's poor customer service to take a booking at 10:45 & bail at 11:10. It is possible that her health suddenly declined or an emergency happened - I get that. If she just wasn't feeling like seeing clients she should have simply said so earlier on & not taken the booking, save me the drive & given some other lady the opportunity to make the money.

Let me ask you the same & only question I sent back to Sam when she cancelled & drove right by me in the parking lot - how do you feel when a customer pulls a no show on you? I treat people with the respect & professionalism I expect them to treat me with.

[librarybooks]

It totally sucks that you had your time wasted and I'd be unimpressed, too. That being said, I'd rather have my time wasted than see a provider that wasn't interested or not feeling into it. You'd just have wasted your time and money and ended up writing a bad review anyway. All that plus having an appointment with someone who wasn't interested in seeng you at the time. That's a lose/lose situation you were in. Just bad timing. I'd be pretty uncomfortable with the idea of a provider 'pushing through it' during an appointment with me. Has she offered to make it up to you somehow? An hour for the cost of an hh or something when she's feeling better? It's not my industry but that seems like a reasonable thing to do when you inconvenience someone somehow.

[WhaWhaWha]

I know what you mean about the White Knights. I had that pulled on me by Lady Ty, a couple years back. No explanation. No warning. I arrived. She canceled. Don't let anyone tell you it isn't a big deal. Your time is worth no less than hers.

[CHASE]

I know what you mean about the White Knights. I had that pulled on me by Lady Ty, a couple years back. No explanation. No warning. I arrived. She canceled. Don't let anyone tell you it isn't a big deal. Your time is worth no less than hers.

Hello WhaWhaWha,

Don't mind me, just trying to score some brownie points with Lady Ty.

I wouldn't take it too personal, you've been around a while and know the way it works.

[varvat0s]

Why not try to book her again, have an amazing experience, and then come back to update this thread to say how it was?

[GuruStamina]

@Rogie, it really sucks you had to spend a 30 min drive and gas only to have your appointment cancelled man. I do understand your frustration and the poor impression of Sam that your experience has created. I would suggest that you give her the benefit of the doubt, while obviously having every right to still be upset with the experience, simply because of her track-record which indicates that this was an abnormality and one I am sure she'd be willing to compensate for with stellar service if you take it up with her. Ultimately, I agree that although an SP has every right to cancel (ex. a health-related emergency comes up), it's important to be considerate of a client's time and give plenty of notice. Sometimes, however, you have to choose the lesser of the two "evils" (if you will) and go ahead and cancel or otherwise lead up to a terrible session. I am sure you would have hated the latter much more than the former, especially because you'd have lost your money that way too and potentially had an even worse and more CERTAIN negative impression of Sam. Here, you still have room to give her a 2nd chance. If it happens again, then you know you were right. If not, and you enjoy yourself -- it's a win-win. Your move bro.

Peace,
GS

[ttomahawkk]

Give it a break,
A Wet fart ?
A multitude of reasons.
Hell even if she peeked from behind the curtains and saw a look at you and decided no.
her choice.

[mb2010]

If she wants to be treated like a professional she should act like one

I agree, it's very unprofessional behavior. But can we really expect professionalism in this industry, and from someone younger than 25?

[mb2010]

Look, I'm glad it worked out for you but encouraging us to push through when we aren't feeling it is a pretty dangerous attitude. If we are going to work when we aren't feeling it that's our prerogative and you shouldn't be creating a standard based on what one girl did for you because its us that knows best whether to cancel or push through. I am not making excuses for bad service or being unreliable o am just trying to be realistic because sometimes it does happen. As in this case with Sam. Firstly Sam is my friend so I won't pretend to be unbiased, but Rogie, I am going to agree with some of the other commenters here and say that I think you are coming off overly volatile and critical. We all have moments when we aren't feeling it anymore and it benefits EVERYONE, escorts and clients alike, when we can cancel if we really need to. Sam has a good rep and no history of doing this, so give her a break. It's better she cancelled than wasted not only your time but your money as well. You got the shitty end of the stick obviously, and I can completely understand being frustrated and disappointed to be on the receiving end of a cancellation. Just remember guys your right to get what you want isn't more important than our right to take care of ourselves and do what we need to do. I say let it go, drop the angry accusations and post your experience without being so inflammatory.

Noelle, get off your high horse and give me a break. Sam should not be making appointments and breaking them half an hour later. You say you are her friend. Then I think you should give this chap twenty dollars for his wasted gas and ask Sam to reimburse you. If you do that then I will have a bit more respect for you and your high horse.

[the ugly truth]

Thanks for the review Rogie1. I wish Sam was pink so we could hear her side of the story instead of by proxy. But she isn't; so, this thread has probably run its course.

[Ninja.Turtle]

I agree, it's very unprofessional behavior. But can we really expect professionalism in this industry, and from someone younger than 25?

We do see it from some. But not many.

I would not have expected getting cancelled like this from anyone on the TTT list. I would have expected her to deal with this when she broke the date. She should have offered a reduced session on another day or done something. Shit comes up, but deal with it at the time.

Our time is just as valuable. Most of us have demanding schedules which is how we afford to hobby and let these girls earn a living. And as was earlier stated, by doing this some other sp who maybe really needed the money and would have kept the date, missed out.

Any escort who starts thinking she is a prima donna and that we are all chomping at the bit for her time is in for a rude awakening.

And re the pushing through, if I had the similar issue she had I would have pushed through too... I would not expect her to jespordize her health. She actually said she felt much better after as she was looking for that release of endorphins from the orgasms... Now I feel used ;)

[thebopper]

Just my two $ worth, to the OP get over it, stuff happens and it's not the end of the world. I would be more concerned about the SP then my 60 minutes of lost driving time. Perhaps a text wondering if all is well and saying sorry we couldn't meet and that it fell through, would pay more dividends then coming on here to vent.

I drive approx. 50 mins each way to see my regular SP and have for a number of years. Occasionally it's fallen through and she hasn't made it to the condo she leases for this purpose. I end up out almost two hours of time. My concern has always been about her and her well being. And I have expressed that in the follow-up text. The last time I was rewarded with two free one hour meetings and an apology. I am a morning man and she had over slept.

Just saying...and I have a rep on these boards as being a black knight.

[honeycrisp2]

Aw buddy don't worry I'm not looking for your respect so I'll pass :P

Noelle, get off your high horse and give me a break. Sam should not be making appointments and breaking them half an hour later. You say you are her friend. Then I think you should give this chap twenty dollars for his wasted gas and ask Sam to reimburse you. If you do that then I will have a bit more respect for you and your high horse.

[Dr.Scorpion]

Aw buddy don't worry I'm not looking for your respect so I'll pass :P

Support for a friend no matter what she has done is admirable. Smartass replies though are not called for and only detract from your credibility.

As noted above though she is not pink so is taking a free ride in your posts.

[Ninja.Turtle]

In the end, I am sure nobody will decide to not see her because of this one event. I am glad it is noted so if it does become a pattern then we will know not to count her as a sure thing. From the reviews it does seem like those lucky enough to bang Sam do enjoy her.

[ttomahawkk]

What %age of no shows does a SP have to put up with?
I'll bet lots of clients just don't show.

Must get irritating for the SPs
It is not like there is only ONE of them on the net.

We all need a always be there SP for such occassions. One who is always ready willing and able to be there for you.

too much anticipation for Just a SPs who strikes your fancy at that particular time.