Trying to lose my name

[TheV]

I've been kind of shadowing these forums for a while and am ready to dive in, but I'm not quite sure who would be the best bet to lose my virginity with. I've got it between Alicia xoxo(http://kitchener.backpage.com/Female...al-26/16745951), xo tiffany (http://kitchener.backpage.com/Female...xo-21/20805454), Carrie (http://kitchener.backpage.com/Female...xo-32/15780493) and sexi sammie (http://kitchener.backpage.com/Female...ox-24/18220151).

I've looked at reviews for these specifically in the past, and they all seem like really good SPs as far as service, reliability and personality go. But wasn't sure if I should tell them I've never had sex before, or when I should (before or when I arrive). I assume honesty is the best policy, but you never know.

And just FYI, if you want to suggest someone else - my only real "required" services are DFK and BBBJ, I know YMMV but these are two things that I'd love to experience. And what I'm looking for isn't necessarily super young, but definitely sexy/attractive body (I mean, if you can't already tell by my choices).

Thanks for any help you can give!

[TheV]

Oh, and to be more specific (sorry for double-post), I'm 22 and have been to a couple MPs (just never had "full service") so I'm still "slightly" nervous but not so much that it would ruin the visit I don't think, as long as we're both on the same page.

[varvat0s]

Of those I've seen only tiff but she was pretty incredible.

Would think it would be better to let her known in advance, chances are she'll be extra nice :)

[massage4u]

I would not suggest Tiffany. I've seen her twice - first time was great, second time much too business like/clock watching. I don't find that attitude a turn-on and won't repeat with her as a result. She did have a very cute little bod tho.. Alicia is a little more mature, and personally I have found her to be much more friendly in general. I think she would be great for a first timer. Can't comment on the other two. As an aside, I'm not sure either Tiff or Alicia does dfk, and as you noted, ymmv. Hobby on friends.

[TheV]

Interesting. Knowing 2 of the 4 don't DFK, I wonder if anyone has experience with the other two on that front? I'll do some digging on here, but not sure how I would like a session without that kind of foreplay.

EDIT: Carrie also has a no DFK rule, but sexy sammie seems to at least offer it to some. YMMV, but maybe I should go with her after all. Her pics ARE quite enticing. But anyone else that you guys think would be a good choice, someone more "personable" or something along those lines?

[the ugly truth]

Alixx is well-reviewed and back in town: http://kitchener.backpage.com/Female...ed-23/23277942

Search the forum for posts on 6061 or 4250 (formerly Casey Kisses).

I'll start you off with my review: http://www.sp411.com/showthread.php?...ey-Kisses-4250

[silverfox]

I've been kind of shadowing these forums for a while and am ready to dive in, but I'm not quite sure who would be the best bet to lose my virginity with. I've got it between Alicia xoxo(http://kitchener.backpage.com/Female...al-26/16745951), xo tiffany (http://kitchener.backpage.com/Female...xo-21/20805454), Carrie (http://kitchener.backpage.com/Female...xo-32/15780493) and sexi sammie (http://kitchener.backpage.com/Female...ox-24/18220151).

I've looked at reviews for these specifically in the past, and they all seem like really good SPs as far as service, reliability and personality go. But wasn't sure if I should tell them I've never had sex before, or when I should (before or when I arrive). I assume honesty is the best policy, but you never know.

And just FYI, if you want to suggest someone else - my only real "required" services are DFK and BBBJ, I know YMMV but these are two things that I'd love to experience. And what I'm looking for isn't necessarily super young, but definitely sexy/attractive body (I mean, if you can't already tell by my choices).

Thanks for any help you can give!

I have seen them all except Tiff.

I would suggest for the first time, maybe a mature woman who won't be clock watching, so you can take your time.
I dont mean to imply the others would rush you but it is a business and they are popular.

However, Sheri Valente is young and does not rush and you will think you are with your real gf. She gets right into the kissing and making you the focus. If I was taking my son out for his first romp she would be at the top of the list. Sweet Em is amazing like that too but is in London and I think retired.

Sammy or Alicia will fuck the hell out of you so eat your Wheaties before going!

[TheV]

It's interesting you say that silver, because I was also looking at Sheri, not sure why I didn't put her in my OP. If she is as focused on the client as you say, I'd probably go with her. I'll text both her and Sammie tomorrow.

Feel free to keep adding, though. This might not be over so soon :P

[LabiaWorship]

All things being equal, my advice for the inexperienced gent is usually to go with the older women. A woman's sexuality is like a fine wine, and really ripens as she passes out of her 20s into her 30s. She'll be more relaxed in her body, and generally hornier, so she'll be more likely to be ready to lead the way with her fresh, unspoilt new boy-toy.

Keep in mind that I don't know a single thing about any of these gals, other than that you say you have researched them and they all have good reviews. Given that, I would recommend this gal:

http://kitchener.backpage.com/Female...xo-32/15780493

However, regardless of who you select, you absolutely should tell her it's your first time. You want a gal who loves the idea of being your first, not just one that says "120HH hun". An older woman is more likely to enjoy guiding you through the experience; younger women often tend to wait for the man to take control. Also, an older woman is far more likely to understand all the various performance problems that can happen to a man, which means she's going to be more relaxed, which of course means you're going to be more relaxed.

Make sure you book at least an hour. You WILL feel pressure to perform if you only have HH, and performance anxiety is NOT what you want.

Couple of bits of advice:

1. Don't bust a nut in any way for at least two weeks before you go. Make sure you have a full tank. Extreme horniness is an excellent cure for nervousness :-) (and nervousness is normal, so just accept it if it happens and carry on).
2. Dress like you're going on a date. You'll feel like more of a gentleman, and she'll definitely appreciate the effort. Be extremely clean; fingernails, haircut, shave, teeth flawless, etc. Bring the very best you've got to offer.
3. Have an idea what you want to do (and let her know this), but leave all your goals at the door. By this I mean don't bring a checklist of things you have to accomplish. If you've never had a BBBJ, you might find it's feeling so good you want to blow almost right away. I say go for it! You'll have most of the hour to recover, so now you can experiment with some foreplay (a useful skill to practice) Find out what she likes. Find out what you like. Don't take any of my advice. Find your own rhythm with her. What the fuck to I know anyway? :-)
4. If you can't get it up, or get it off, don't ruin the experience by worrying about it. You've still got a beautiful naked women in your arms, so enjoy this awesome thing. Sometimes I love to take time to just admire all the sculpted art between their legs; no two alike in all the world!
5. Remember to breathe. This will relax you, and improve your performance.

Remember, it's just sex. No big deal. Have fun, laugh, and don't take it too seriously. Plan it out in advance, and then when it begins, drop all planning and expectations and just go with the flow. You're gonna get laid! Whoo-hoo!

[TheV]

The only thing with a more mature woman is that, at least from their pictures, they aren't as attractive and I'm just nervous that will affect my performance. Would there be anyone you (or others) can suggest in their 30s that is still in the same kind of "body description " the others in my post have? By the way, if I sound rude or offend anyone, I apologise- it's just personal preference

[sunshine]

The only thing with a more mature woman is that, at least from their pictures, they aren't as attractive and I'm just nervous that will affect my performance. Would there be anyone you (or others) can suggest in their 30s that is still in the same kind of "body description " the others in my post have? By the way, if I sound rude or offend anyone, I apologise- it's just personal preference

You might find a way to compromise with the recommendations these guys are giving you (choose someone mature) with what you as a 22 year old really is attracted to (someone in similar age) by just choosing someone who is advertising in the mid 20s rather than the low 20s. You want to see someone who is experienced with a lot of different kinds of clients who've had a lot of different needs, and even just knowing an sp has been working steading for 3 or more years, it stands to reason she has seen it all by that time even if she was only 25.

[Victoria Catherina]

Of those I've seen only tiff but she was pretty incredible.

Would think it would be better to let her known in advance, chances are she'll be extra nice :)

100 % you need to tell her , I've seen dozens of virgin and you need to make sure that she does know , because it can go many ways --nerves and the stress can do several things to ruin the rendezvous . The right lady will calm you and make you feel comfortable before you even start removing your clothes . My opinion , I suggest you select a mature lady , we are a little more patient

[LabiaWorship]

The only thing with a more mature woman is that, at least from their pictures, they aren't as attractive and I'm just nervous that will affect my performance. Would there be anyone you (or others) can suggest in their 30s that is still in the same kind of "body description " the others in my post have? By the way, if I sound rude or offend anyone, I apologise- it's just personal preference

I don't know that area at all cos I'm in Toronto, so I really couldn't give any suggestions out that way.

But yes, you definitely want to go with a woman who turns you on. You want to look at her pics, and feel that need to stick your cock in her. That's the best feeling in the world, knowing you get to do exactly that.

Nobody can really speak to your tastes, so unfortunately you'll have to take that on yourself.

I will tell you this: you are very wise to be taking your time and comparing all your options. You'll be glad you've done this. However, at some point you'll going to need to pick the lucky gal, make an appointment, and fill her up with your meat! They're none of them perfect; they're human beings ya know? Love them the way they are.

I'm over 40, so for me a 30 year old woman is young and fresh. I remember when I was in my early 20s, the 30 year olds were definitely showing signs of age. I'll tell you, one of the awesome things about aging as a man is that more and more women look better and better. The 20 year olds are so unspoiled I almost feel like a pedophile, and the women my age have all aged at the same pace as me, so there's an appreciation for the evolution of their beauty. (supposedly there's tons of fucking going on in old age homes -- to a 75yr old, all the 65yr olds are fresh meat). It's all good. Also, young women I wouldn't have found pretty when I was 20, are now so cute and fresh I feel like a total dirty old man when their legs are wrapped around my neck. It's so fucking awesome aging as a man (certainly when it comes to attraction to women). They're practically all 10s!

Enjoy, brother.

[Victoria Catherina]

Couple of bits of advice:

1. Don't bust a nut in any way for at least two weeks before you go. Make sure you have a full tank. Extreme horniness is an excellent cure for nervousness :-) (and nervousness is normal, so just accept it if it happens and carry on).
2. Dress like you're going on a date. You'll feel like more of a gentleman, and she'll definitely appreciate the effort. Be extremely clean; fingernails, haircut, shave, teeth flawless, etc. Bring the very best you've got to offer.
3. Have an idea what you want to do (and let her know this), but leave all your goals at the door. By this I mean don't bring a checklist of things you have to accomplish. If you've never had a BBBJ, you might find it's feeling so good you want to blow almost right away. I say go for it! You'll have most of the hour to recover, so now you can experiment with some foreplay (a useful skill to practice) Find out what she likes. Find out what you like. Don't take any of my advice. Find your own rhythm with her. What the fuck to I know anyway? :-)
4. If you can't get it up, or get it off, don't ruin the experience by worrying about it. You've still got a beautiful naked women in your arms, so enjoy this awesome thing. Sometimes I love to take time to just admire all the sculpted art between their legs; no two alike in all the world!
5. Remember to breathe. This will relax you, and improve your performance.

Remember, it's just sex. No big deal. Have fun, laugh, and don't take it too seriously. Plan it out in advance, and then when it begins, drop all planning and expectations and just go with the flow. You're gonna get laid! Whoo-hoo!

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[MyBalls]

I guess I'll take some flack for this, but my suggestion is you shouldn't lose your virginity this way.

[surak98]

I guess I'll take some flack for this, but my suggestion is you shouldn't lose your virginity this way.

In a perfect world, you would be correct. Wouldn't it be nice if the OP met some sweet young thing, fell in love and they both lose their cherries together? I doubt that the OP is willing to wait to see when and if this would ever happen.

Enjoy yourself, my friend. Pick out a lady and go fuck her brains out!

[LabiaWorship]

Good advice ... only one problem the vast majority of mature escorts won't see a 22 year old, particular one that is looking to lose his virginity.

If she doesn't want to see you, then for sure you won't want to see her either, so no loss in this situation from being honest.

[LabiaWorship]

I guess I'll take some flack for this, but my suggestion is you shouldn't lose your virginity this way.

If he was 17, then this might be good advice. Now? He's 22, and the longer he waits, the more it's gonna weigh on him and affect his confidence.

Nope, I say hire a professional and get that taken care of. It'll be a huge relief (literally and figuratively).

[edsmith2008]

I wish SP providers were around for my first time. Would have saved me a bunch of embarassement with my real first time. Although, I would be more concerned about busting a nut after just one kiss, than whether I would be able to get it up. I'd have a boner walking up to the door. Lol

[Felonius Monk]

Sheri Valente? Absolutely!

. . . Sheri Valente is young and does not rush and you will think you are with your real gf. She gets right into the kissing and making you the focus. If I was taking my son out for his first romp she would be at the top of the list. . . .

Just remember, if you start with the best, you may be disappointed with the rest.

[LabiaWorship]

Wouldn't it be nice if the OP met some sweet young thing, fell in love and they both lose their cherries together?

In the movies this is always such a beautiful thing, but in reality, I believe virgins on both sides should trust someone of experience to take them through this event.

For women, losing their virginity can be painful, and that ain't gonna be made better by some fumbling fool who read about it in a book somewhere, but as like as not is going to shove it in her without any warning because all he can think about is the primal call to stick it all the way in, immediately! An experienced man will not be in such a hurry, and will enjoy the process of warming her up, and taking her past her fears to the point where she is more than ready, and wants to feel a cock inside her, now.

Many men have lost their virginity to older women, and more often than not have fond memories of this.

Nope, I'm a firm believer that an older, experienced person is far more likely to provide a low-stress and pleasurable first time.

[surak98]

I wish SP providers were around for my first time.

There were NO hookers when you were are virgin???

What are you 200,000 years old?

[Felonius Monk]

Perhaps his options seemed limited

[Victoria Catherina]

Good advice ... only one problem the vast majority of mature escorts won't see a 22 year old, particular one that is looking to lose his virginity.

Agreed , I usually see only gentlemen over 25 ... but over the several dozens of young men that I've taken there virginity . Most we're more mature then you'd would think ( under 25). For the most part I find when losing there virginity at later age its usually from more of a militant up bring and / or focusing on there post secondary education . Like my self I was 23 when I lost mine , losing mine was due to strict parents a catholic up bring and my studies in university .