Does anyone else get consistently ghosted?

[Tomislav]

This is more just a rant, but I feel like I'm going crazy with how I'm getting ghosted consecutively by several different SPs after booking them. I'm not pissing them off as far as I'm aware, we have polite introductions and we set up our meetings in just a few texts. Then the day rolls around and I'll shoot off a text confirming if our appointment is still on, and they disappear off the face of the Earth. Even the ones who tell me they'll message me ahead of time to confirm the booking with me will just never text again. Some SPs I've given second attempts later on and didn't push for answers as to why they ghosted me. Same results then too - I book them and then they ghost me the day of.

These aren't just some nobodies either, these are reputable, well reviewed SPs I'm trying to see. I'm not going to name names but I'd expect at least a little bit more professionalism when it comes to this. I'm not some mean dickhead, I get that it can be hectic work and things come up, but they could at the very least tell me they're gonna cancel on me. It's only irritating me because we confirm the booking, and they disappear when the day comes. I wouldn't even ordinarily complain about this, but it's just been happening so frequently and one after another now.

What gives? Are they throwing out out my appointment in favour of someone else? Well, money saved I guess lol?

[Kostas]

This is more just a rant, but I feel like I'm going crazy with how I'm getting ghosted consecutively by several different SPs after booking them. I'm not pissing them off as far as I'm aware, we have polite introductions and we set up our meetings in just a few texts. Then the day rolls around and I'll shoot off a text confirming if our appointment is still on, and they disappear off the face of the Earth. Even the ones who tell me they'll message me ahead of time to confirm the booking with me will just never text again. Some SPs I've given second attempts later on and didn't push for answers as to why they ghosted me. Same results then too - I book them and then they ghost me the day of.

These aren't just some nobodies either, these are reputable, well reviewed SPs I'm trying to see. I'm not going to name names but I'd expect at least a little bit more professionalism when it comes to this. I'm not some mean dickhead, I get that it can be hectic work and things come up, but they could at the very least tell me they're gonna cancel on me. It's only irritating me because we confirm the booking, and they disappear when the day comes. I wouldn't even ordinarily complain about this, but it's just been happening so frequently and one after another now.

What gives? Are they throwing out out my appointment in favour of someone else? Well, money saved I guess lol?

Sorry to hear that's happening to u I'm not sure why that is but I'm sure u are not the only one that has the same problem there are a few who have similar issue like u try a agency or massage parlors maybe u will have better luck there

[play4me]

No its not about having a "rep"...its simply the way the almost ALL girls insist on doing business. TEXT ONLY!
So what has happened in this "personless" world is no one wants to deal with anyone by phone or in person anymore.
Not only have i NEVER had any success with these text only types but more often than not 1 of 2 things happens. I get short responses like "hey hun" or "hi" then never hear another word back no matter how i respond or i get a respponse about 3 days AFTER i sent it saying "yes, im available"....

From the SP's point of view: Technically and theoretically, its so much easier for the girl to sit back and scroll through and fire off one or 2 word answers whenever they want and/or simply send a prepared script.
Basically the attitude is, the more texts i get, the greater that 1% will add up to in terms of bookings. "If I get 10 requests to see me at 1pm, then im confident that 1 will show" which of course leaves the other 9 SOL. "I dont have to deal with anyone who sounds creepy or rude (even thought hey still may be just that) and as long as i can get my one date in that time slot and my 6? dates today, i really dont care. I dont have to worry about men calling to masturbate and/or otherwise waste my time."
of course, using "text only" also allows a third party to be involved such as a BF, BFF or P*imp. So now, you have an issue of someone else pretending to be the sp, often to agreeing to things that the sp wont do and caring nothing about wasting any of our time. I wont even mention the potential for numerous types of scams.
So, unfortunately this also opens up other issues. Many good clients get washed away in this sea of nonsense. With some of those SP's, their phones are like one big non stop scrolling wheel of anything from "hey bitch lets f*ck to here is my life story".
So now, most clients, having experienced poor communication and ghosting, realize this and simply send multiple texts to multiple SP's hoping that one will come through. So now its the same on the other side. Often, guys send so many texts they cant even see or remember which ones respond, if any...and voila, just like that, you have one big cesspool of no shows, ghostings and miscommunication.

So what should be done?
For the client: Well at the end of the day, its quite simple: refuse to do business with anyone who you cannot talk to over the phone. (aside from known regulars of course) while its not 100%, at least you know the girl exists, and also if SHE is not a danger to me. Does she sound like a lunatic, stoned? Can you hear someone (a man) in the background coughing up a lung on the pipe? (yes ive heard that many times lol) Just get a feel for her demeanor and overall attitude.

And for the SP: Realize that while taking calls may not be THE perfect solution to timewasters, logistically it will drastically cut down on the number of obvious ones. If I were you, i would want to hear who is wanting to spend time with me, use it to detect any possible attitude, or substance abuse issues etc. If you are intelligent, articulate and organized you can easily spend no more than a few minutes on the phone to screen a potential client. (if you are unable or unwilling to do this, then you can jump into the above mentioned cesspool)
Establish a system like any other business and stick to it. You can and will actually save time and spend less time on the phone than you do now dealing with the endless texts and you WILL attract a better and/or higher level of client. I know the vast majority of texts are time wasters, tire kickers, competitors, pranksters and kids. (I recall this past summer being around a bunch of youngsters 17-21 yrs old and overhearing them as they joked about texting a "hooker" to see what they could get, string them along etc)
Yes girls, you are running a "business" and need to treat it accordingly. There are even more ways to tighten the screening process, id be happy to consult lol

Lastly, for both the Boys and Girls here:
This industry flourished way way back, long before smart phones came along. Both of you, dont be lazy, use common sense, do your due dilligence and enjoy safe and prosperous hobbying.

[joseppi]

Prebooking never works. I never prebook anymore because most girl take the customers as they come and forget about you.

[WWW]

And umm….just do same day bookings. Don’t book in advance, a lot… & I do mean a shit load of a lot can happen in one day to people. Booking in advance is never guaranteed & rarely works out.
So just book the same day. Just saying…..live in the moment .