***WARNING*** That's it I'm done with SP's!!!

[northwellguy]

From now on it's only reputable, safe, MP's for me.

I am done with SP's and all their nonsense - no shows, fake pics, pimps, callbacks, etc, etc, etc

I have been hobbying for over 15 years now ever since my divorce AND I just got home from the scariest situation I have ever experienced and I handled it like a whiny little bitch. No kidding. I handled it poorly.

I will not post the name or number of the SP involved because other then posting fake pics she did nothing wrong really. PM me if you want "name" and "number" for your FYI files.

Cruised backpage and found an ad close to me so I texted, was texted back about 6 hours later but was still working in the area so I set up an rendezvous. Got to the location and texted for apartment # (Yes a private residence but one of those cheap 6 unit square buildings that forever dot K/W/G). Was texted she needed more time. I was standing across the street at a bus stop. Right after she texted me a sketchy dude came out of the building and was obviously looking around for me. It couldn't have been more obvious other then if he started yelling out my name! I then recieved a text saying "come on in". I had to walk past this guy and **red flag 1** but I continued in - as soon as I entered the building I could see through the front door that he was texting at which point another sketchy dude came down the stairs staring at me **red flag 2** and he went outside to talk to the other dude and both looked back at me staring. Meanwhile I was knocking and could hear a big dog barking **red flag 3**. When the SP opened the door as I predicted no where near her "pics" on BP but OK whatever it's par for the course - but she was constantly texting while I stood there **red flag 4**.
Now...
It was at this point my brain finally turned back on - I told her the 'ole, "Opps I forgot my money I need to go to my car and get it". YES I know its totally lame and belittles the SP herself and I should have been more forthright BUT...
I was expecting to have my head caved in at any moment.
So I left the apartment apologizing to the SP and the two dudes were still outside milling around - both stared at me, whispered to each other and followed me around the corner... at this point YEP I thought this it!!! FINALLY this hobby has caught up to me and I'm about to be curbed stomped by a pimp...
At that point they stopped and stared me down while I turned another corner - I now think they were confused and probably didn't know what to do since they seemed a little young.
I jumped in my vehicle and ran - YES I ran - call me a bitch, call me weak, call me a loser - I RAN!!!
I texted the SP and apologized but she was not having it and called me every name in the book. Promising to call the police on me. She told me nobody was there - no guys with her. WHATEVER - not my first rodeo, I've been around a while now. Either her "friends", "security", or whatever. I call them pimps. Then she texted and wanted me to come back an pay her for her time. I get it - I was a weak ass loser to her which is why I apologized (FYI, had to block her number as spam at this point).

I have NEVER! EVER! Been that downright shit-out-of-me scared before at an incall and I've been to a lot of sketchy places over the years.

I am done!

MP's now only for me - safe, clean, convienent, and I know some of the owners personally.

[Popcorn]

Think you should post the number. Fake pics is reason enough.

And always have a hobby phone. 7-11 has cheap enough rates.

[Anothermillwright]

Don't be so hard on yourself man your not weak or a loser or any of that shit. You're a man looking to get some quick puss lol unless your accustomed to situations like that you cant expect to handle it any differently.

[randysexmachine]

Could have been worse but yes you should expose the scam , person who is this sketch bag.

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[GetTheGREEK]

Honestly bro get the fake phone call app and set it for 4 mins into your appointment if things are going south just answer and say "oh officer MacDonald how can i help put your hand on the mic and say its my parole officer" and make the one second finger motion and walk away they wont do anything as they think your on the phone with a cop already and you can just get into your car and drive.

but that being said yes get a hobby phone or a free app

[swiftgoose]

Honestly, it's time they legalized the hobby; having it illegal endangers the wonderful women that provide professional services so well, as those on our TTT list, and it also endangers the hobbyist, as seen above, and only promotes the scammers and the scum artists. Sorry you had this happen, North. I've had a few close encounters as well, backing out of obviously surveilled situations. Stay safe out there, ladies and gentlemen.

[spanky]

You aren't a loser. Thumbs up for looking out for your own. As other posters have mentioned, you should expose the people behind it so forum members can tread cautiously and don't actually get stomped by the so called security...

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[terbuserkitchener]

Holy shit. That's brutal. Good instinct to bail when you did.

[northwellguy]

Good advice to all hobbyists about phones.

I used to have a burner but don't anymore since I very rarely see SP's and now I will not see anymore except one that I have seen 50+ times and trust.

But if you are hobbying frequently YES a burner is great advice.

[norbert]

Well I wasn't there and can't really get the mood but it seems the two outside dudes didn't actually confront you - could you maybe have just been way edgy because of 4 red flags. You absolutely did the right thing even if you over reacted. Get the fuck out of there when that's what your instinct says. You really need to say who this was. If you felt strongly enough to run for it we really should have the 411

[joseppi]

That's why we keep saying go with the reviewed girls. I know someone has to be first , but if it looks too good it usually is. I stay out of sketchy neighbourhoods and don't usually go to houses and complexes that people can see who is coming and going.

I have been to a few incalls were I passed by someone that looked me straight in the face. I'm sure this person was connected with the lady. Never had anyone follow me but if I did I would taken a few detours and see how long this person followed me.

You have nothing to go on other than your mind ran wild. It was good that you left a situation that did not feel right.

[DiscretionAdvised]

You did the right thing. It kind of defeats the purpose to be on edge when soliciting a service, isn't it?

I enjoy a good fight as much as the next guy, but you need to be wise and pick your battles.

[librarybooks]

Getting out of a potentially dangerous situation safely is the best way to handle it. Handling two grown men is dangerous for someone experienced with martial arts or combat sports. Especially if one had a weapon of some kind. Unless they were 10 year olds, you made the right move. Defending yourself is a resort to an attack and you managed to get out without being attacked. It's not a Charles Bronson movie.

[hivol]

You should give us the 411. I'd be happy to visit her (them).


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[Popcorn]

I wouldn't do a private residence Incall.

Also, when I get let in the hotel room, I open the closed doors. I do it before I hand over the money. Had a dude/pimp I'm guessing in a room a while ago at a cambridge hotel. Who knows why and who cares? That's my sign to walk out.

[massage4u]

The ladies on this site will often cancel or refuse an appointment based on the feel of the situation, if their red flag radar goes off or that sixth sense just says something is wrong. I dont think theres any reason the same rules dont apply to the blues. If I thought a girl was working with a pimp I would avoid based on principle alone, although it may be hard to know. The TT and T list is always a good option. Glad it ended as it did. Be careful out there friends.

[randybanks]

You should provide the last 4 digits of the phone. Don't let someone else walk into this situation and get hurt.

Always use a burner phone, keep I'd and extra cash in the car before going into a strange situation.

Your spidey sense is your best defense.

[evanearl]

I wouldn't do a private residence Incall.

Also, when I get let in the hotel room, I open the closed doors. I do it before I hand over the money. Had a dude/pimp I'm guessing in a room a while ago at a cambridge hotel. Who knows why and who cares? That's my sign to walk out.

so the first thing you do is sketch out the sp by opening doors and shit? lol. How bout you stick to visiting well reviewed girls. If i was an SP and some dude came opening shit, first thing I would think is that they came looking for trouble.

Some SP's keep their money in these closed doors, and would probably think you came to rob them.

[manaman221]

If all the blues did was stick to well reviewed pinks and ladies, how will all the hidden gems be found and TTT list be revised. Seeing the same lady gets boring really quick imo. We win and lose as a team.

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[Popcorn]

so the first thing you do is sketch out the sp by opening doors and shit? lol. How bout you stick to visiting well reviewed girls. If i was an SP and some dude came opening shit, first thing I would think is that they came looking for trouble.

Some SP's keep their money in these closed doors, and would probably think you came to rob them.

If I go to a hotel and doors are closed, you'd have to be retarded to think her money is laying on the floor.

[Popcorn]

If all the blues did was stick to well reviewed pinks and ladies, how will all the hidden gems be found and TTT list be revised. Seeing the same lady gets boring really quick imo. We win and lose as a team.

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Hidden gems.. Nah, they are too young.

[Guelphguy101]

Ignoring the part about the dudes, if the girl at the door isn't the girl in the ad, you can walk with a clear conscience. Add this to the presence of the two dudes and I think you did what any of us would have done if we had been as observant.

[norbert]

Well thanks for the useless heads up - who was this

[northwellguy]

Well thanks for the useless heads up - who was this

No problem

Or you could stop being a douche and pm me for the info like I've already done for many

[Arr0w]

No problem

Or you could stop being a douche and pm me for the info like I've already done for many

Sent one yesterday. Too many in your inbox I guess ;) lol