Alicia 2890 - Careful!

[kinkytree]

http://kitchener.backpage.com/Female...ia-xo/24802568

2890

Hey, guys, so I figured it's about time I give a warning about this one. As far as I've known, she only goes by the name Alicia.

I actually saw her a little over a year ago. Something about her pictures struck a chord with me for some reason (younger guy, older woman fantasy, I guess). At the time, I believe she was doing 80hh, 130fh, but I think these rates just change depending on her mood. She was pleasant enough to text and I was soon at her door. I went for the full hour because I prefer taking my time, and she was very kind and polite, offered me a beer (don't worry, I opened it myself at least heh), and we slowly started getting into it. She was the closest I've actually seen to GFE and was very sensual and seemed very into it. Honestly, there was nothing to complain about.

But there was something just a little bit off about her. I remember after we finished a second round, we just lied down and talked. She got on the subject of other clients and how she's been accused of doing drugs; she seemed very offended by this idea and went on about it for a while. I don't know, something about the way she talked about it was just a bit too defensive especially mixed with her personality. I just let it slide.

I didn't end up having the chance to repeat soon after even though I would have liked to. I found recently that she's still posting ads, so I contacted her a couple of weeks ago. She agreed to $100 for the hour (felt generous this time maybe?) but wanted a $40 e-transfer because she's been "robbed" sometime in the past year and wanted some insurance. I felt weird about doing it, but, after a bit of thought, I decided to go for it. After all, she was so pleasant and honest last time, I should give her the benefit of the doubt.

This is where things got a bit shady. While she was waiting for the e-transfer to send, she kept acting quite flirty and even sent a couple of extra pics of herself without me asking for them. Right on! Well, as soon as I got the e-mail saying my transfer was accepted, she replied with a "oh okay, i got it". It was a bit of a drive for me (and I warned her of this), so I texted her before leaving. No answer. I texted her once I was outside of her building. No answer.

After about 20 minutes of waiting, she texts me back something about her ex-husband dropping off their kid and going to some game or something. Once again, I gave her the benefit of the doubt and figured "Hey, she can't help it if some asshole (that she'd talked a bit about during our last encounter) hands her a kid last minute without warning". I tried sorting out an alternative for about an hour with her before she just stopped responding. Fed up, I drove home and decided to come back another day.

And, holy fuck, boys, here we go. She did not respond to my texts until several days later. She said something about being sick and going back to sleep. I'm going to spare the majority of details here because it gets a bit repetitive. I can't stress this enough: I was extremely patient with this woman. I gave her an entire week of "benefit of the doubt" after we were supposed to meet. She kept asking "who is this?" and saying "i don't save my messages" and claiming we'd met and we'd went out for dinner. She would usually not respond unless I showed some sign of being fed up with the bullshit.

After 2 weeks or so of this, I gave her one last chance. After the usual "who is this?", I just told her that she can keep the e-transfer and that I'll just be sure to warn others about her in case she's just become a straight-up scammer. At this point, she flipped out and started questioning who I was (even though I'd told her many times, patiently, and even sent a picture so she might remember). I ended up getting a bit pissed off and called her a thief. She decided she would have to have "Mike" (I believe her ex-husband) call me for calling her names. After explaining that I don't really care about Mike's "scary phone call" and that all I wanted was for her to confess to her bullshit, she went quiet and said she'd "call off" Mike. She then texted me something about trying to "find my e-transfer" and give it back to me, but I just didn't bother answering because I knew I wasn't getting it back.

Very long story short, I don't know if this woman is a scammer, but I'm more inclined to believe she's on something and is just too thick and full of herself to properly manage herself in this business.

Stay away from this one, my friends; it's like trying to schedule a meeting with a wall behind a locked door.

[kinkytree]

And I do realize you often get what you pay for. I just figured with the kind of service I got the first time, I just found a diamond in the rough. Turns out it was just a turd.

[thebopper]

She had a shitty review some time ago and has been on my NWL (No Way List) ever since and I am talking at least two years.

Interesting read and well written, thanks anyway.

[Mr CFP]

http://kitchener.backpage.com/Female...ia-xo/24802568

2890

Hey, guys, so I figured it's about time I give a warning about this one. As far as I've known, she only goes by the name Alicia.

I actually saw her a little over a year ago. Something about her pictures struck a chord with me for some reason (younger guy, older woman fantasy, I guess). At the time, I believe she was doing 80hh, 130fh, but I think these rates just change depending on her mood. She was pleasant enough to text and I was soon at her door. I went for the full hour because I prefer taking my time, and she was very kind and polite, offered me a beer (don't worry, I opened it myself at least heh), and we slowly started getting into it. She was the closest I've actually seen to GFE and was very sensual and seemed very into it. Honestly, there was nothing to complain about.

But there was something just a little bit off about her. I remember after we finished a second round, we just lied down and talked. She got on the subject of other clients and how she's been accused of doing drugs; she seemed very offended by this idea and went on about it for a while. I don't know, something about the way she talked about it was just a bit too defensive especially mixed with her personality. I just let it slide.

I didn't end up having the chance to repeat soon after even though I would have liked to. I found recently that she's still posting ads, so I contacted her a couple of weeks ago. She agreed to $100 for the hour (felt generous this time maybe?) but wanted a $40 e-transfer because she's been "robbed" sometime in the past year and wanted some insurance. I felt weird about doing it, but, after a bit of thought, I decided to go for it. After all, she was so pleasant and honest last time, I should give her the benefit of the doubt.

This is where things got a bit shady. While she was waiting for the e-transfer to send, she kept acting quite flirty and even sent a couple of extra pics of herself without me asking for them. Right on! Well, as soon as I got the e-mail saying my transfer was accepted, she replied with a "oh okay, i got it". It was a bit of a drive for me (and I warned her of this), so I texted her before leaving. No answer. I texted her once I was outside of her building. No answer.

After about 20 minutes of waiting, she texts me back something about her ex-husband dropping off their kid and going to some game or something. Once again, I gave her the benefit of the doubt and figured "Hey, she can't help it if some asshole (that she'd talked a bit about during our last encounter) hands her a kid last minute without warning". I tried sorting out an alternative for about an hour with her before she just stopped responding. Fed up, I drove home and decided to come back another day.

And, holy fuck, boys, here we go. She did not respond to my texts until several days later. She said something about being sick and going back to sleep. I'm going to spare the majority of details here because it gets a bit repetitive. I can't stress this enough: I was extremely patient with this woman. I gave her an entire week of "benefit of the doubt" after we were supposed to meet. She kept asking "who is this?" and saying "i don't save my messages" and claiming we'd met and we'd went out for dinner. She would usually not respond unless I showed some sign of being fed up with the bullshit.

After 2 weeks or so of this, I gave her one last chance. After the usual "who is this?", I just told her that she can keep the e-transfer and that I'll just be sure to warn others about her in case she's just become a straight-up scammer. At this point, she flipped out and started questioning who I was (even though I'd told her many times, patiently, and even sent a picture so she might remember). I ended up getting a bit pissed off and called her a thief. She decided she would have to have "Mike" (I believe her ex-husband) call me for calling her names. After explaining that I don't really care about Mike's "scary phone call" and that all I wanted was for her to confess to her bullshit, she went quiet and said she'd "call off" Mike. She then texted me something about trying to "find my e-transfer" and give it back to me, but I just didn't bother answering because I knew I wasn't getting it back.

Very long story short, I don't know if this woman is a scammer, but I'm more inclined to believe she's on something and is just too thick and full of herself to properly manage herself in this business.

Stay away from this one, my friends; it's like trying to schedule a meeting with a wall behind a locked door.

Thanks for sharing this with us and sorry to hear that you got screwed over like that. I've always wondered about this one...

Sad to say, IMHO she's probably a drunk or an addict based on the behaviour you've described. Be thankful you're only out $40 and stay far away, even if she contacts you again.

[ttomahawkk]

And the cost of the BP ad warning us about her!
There is one posted today!
No one in their right mind would send a money transfer, to her /him whoever is at the other end.

That should have been a clue,

Not a smart move at all.

[forbiddenone]

Maybe the second time you were not dealing with her or she was under someone else's control this time.

[Yguy]

I have met with her in the past (almost a year ago today) and I would be inclined to agree with the latter assumption. That is to say, I think she is on some sort of drug or has some mental disability. She is a strange individual who seems to have only gotten more odd as time has gone by. I could't tell you if she stole your money with malice of forethought but I can second your recommendation that future hobbyists be wary of her.

[ttomahawkk]

Call simple way to hear who is on the other end.
end the attempt as soon as you hear something fishy.

Do people respond when they win a million $ but it will cost then some money to get it out of the vault.

Don't be stupid .

[kinkytree]

Glad I could be of some help.

To re-iterate, the only reason I'd agreed to the e-transfer was because of my purely positive experience that I'd had with her the year prior. She didn't seem like the most aware or intelligent person, so being robbed was a complete possibility. I questioned whether e-transfer would be a good way to weed out "thieves", but sometimes one head takes a little too much blood away from the other.

If she'd asked for the payment in full to be done over e-transfer (or any more than what I'd sent, to be honest), I would not have done it. I very very rarely gamble, so I guess I was able to justify to myself this one time.

Anyway, cheers. Glad to hear that someone posted a BP ad against her. I've seen so many more of them lately; good on you.